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Picking Up Chicks At Starbucks

September 29, 2011

I do a lot of my work in cafes.  I’m in a pretty serious relationship, so when I go out to a cafe I really do go to work.  However, I did at one time have a career as a notorious player, so I’m always evaluating situations to see how to best approach a pick up.  I’ve come up with four bits of information that will be of use to any man interested in picking up in these venues, and they concern the body language signals that girls send when they want you to hit on them.

1.  They will sit near you.

This can be hard to interpret if the cafe is packed, but if there’s plenty of seating and she sits near you, there is a good chance that she wants you to hit on her.  This move can be quite obvious so what you’ll sometimes see happen is that you’ll go to use the bathroom and then when you come back, a girl who was sitting in another seat will now be sitting near you.

2.  They will follow you up to the counter

If there’s a girl in the cafe who digs you, but there either isn’t a seat near you or she doesn’t want to send an obvious signal, she’ll wait for you to go up to the counter.  Try it.  If you think a chick has been checking out, go up to the counter for a refill.  There is a good chance that the girl who was checking you out will follow you up there like she’s thinking of ordering something too.


3.  After looking at you, they will accentuate their feminine features

I can’t count how many times I’ve had a girl look over at me and then go back to her work while arching her back and sticking her chest out.  You’ll also see it with girls who just walked in and are waiting to order at the counter.  They scan the cafe, see a guy they like and then start putting on this sexual display.  These girls may not be speaking, but they are sending one signal loud and clear, ‘Look at my ass and tits!’


4.  They will point their feet at you

Sometimes this will be accompanied by sliding in and out of her shoes a little bit.  The feet point to what’s on her mind.  If a girl is already sitting down when you arrive at a cafe and you want to figure out if she’s interested, pay attention to her feet.  If she likes you, she’ll often shift her feet to point in your direction.

It’s common that a girl who is doing 3 or 4 will then do 2 when you go up to the counter.  Girls who do 1 are often doing 4 as well.

For more advice on how to pick up girls in coffee shops, check out Roosh’s Day Bang book.

3 Comments leave one →
  1. September 29, 2011 10:00 pm

    someone told me to come here. glad they did. i’ll have to nose around later. but…..very good stuff you’re posting.

    stay up.

  2. September 29, 2011 10:07 pm

    in regards to the this post, i was once told to take note at where my feet point when i walk. mine sit at about 11:00 and 1:00. a woman whose gait ranges similar will be a good match for me.

    my ex……was damn near pigeon toed. you be the judge. she was great in bed though.

  3. Austin permalink
    September 29, 2011 11:02 pm

    This is really a fantastic blog. One of the few game sites that doesn’t read like it was authored by someone with major mommy-issues. The “all women are amoral” MGTOW shtick has gotten old.

    K: Thanks, I’m glad you like it. In the end, MGTOW leads to extinction. I think men and women can find ways to connect and have healthy relationships despite the damage done to traditional courtship and marriage.

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