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Nice Guy Game Works

February 28, 2012
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Nice guy game works. Why don’t most nice guys get laid? Because they’re not really nice. They just think that’s how they need to act to get sex. They prostrate themselves for girls because they expect it to lead to sex.
Why do real nice guys get laid? Because they’re not needy, they’re just genuinely nice people. I have a couple of friends like this. They don’t get laid as often as a man running asshole game, but they’re not starved for sex the way your typical “nice” guy chump is. How can you tell the difference between genuine nice guys and chump nice guys? Genuine nice guys have self-respect. They will comply with reasonable requests from anyone, but will call people out on their rudeness whether they’re male or female. Fake nice guys will only call out their male friends, but will let girls walk all over their balls if they think it’ll lead to sex.


Think through the nice guys you know. Classify them by real nice vs. fake nice. I guarantee you’ll find that the genuine nice guys have a large number of female friends and don’t struggle for dating options. Girls push, they test your limits. You either lay down the lay and get laid, or you let them walk all over you and go home to masturbate. Genuine nice guys HAVE SELF-RESPECT. For all the nice things they do, they still put a girl in place when she steps out of line.

13 Comments leave one →
  1. February 28, 2012 10:14 pm

    Wow powerful stuff Kane.

    You have me thinking hard on this.In all actuality,so-called nice guys are NOT nice at all.They just pretend to be nice under the false impression that that would get them laid.

    In my AFC days(prior to Game),I was never a nice guy per say.I was a dick.But when it came to trying to get laid,I became nice:thinking that was the way to get laid,but I’d end up getting hurt.

    Greatest post I read in months bro’.

  2. asdf permalink
    February 28, 2012 11:40 pm

    All your saying is that high value men can afford to be nice, and it won’t hurt them so much that they completely lose the ability to get laid.

    Regular dudes simply don’t have good enough genes to get laid. Assholes, nice, mystery method. All just desperate attempts to hide the underlying objective fact that there genes aren’t good enough. Being themselves means being not good enough.

  3. Retrenched permalink
    February 29, 2012 12:02 am

    Good post. I like reading posts that make me think. My thoughts…

    1. Being genuinely nice (as opposed to the wimpiness of the “fake nice guy” you described in the first part of the post) isn’t really a bad thing, but it’s certainly not an attraction trigger in isolation. Which is to say, no girl will ever sleep with or make out with a guy because he is “nice”. She may like him okay as a friend, neighbor or co-worker, but he doesn’t have something else going for him (looks, game, status etc.) then that’s as far as it will go.

    2. Some people are confusing cause with effect. It isn’t so much that women find the nice guys unattractive because they’re nice, it’s that they’re calling them “nice” because they do not find them attractive. It’s a polite word women generally use to describe good, decent men who don’t offend them, but who don’t turn them on either.

    3. Few women will ever use the word “nice” to describe a man they find sexually attractive, even if he is actually nice. (George Clooney seems like a nice man, but do you think “nice” is the first word that comes to women’s minds when they think of George Clooney? Probably not.)

  4. susanawalsh permalink
    February 29, 2012 8:59 pm

    Good post, Kane. I think you’ve hit on something here – a lot of women say they like betas, but what they’re really saying is they want a genuinely nice man instead of someone faking anything, be it nice guy or asshole.

  5. just visiting permalink
    February 29, 2012 11:04 pm

    Agree . Nice does not equal supplication. A nice guy who respects himself and has boundaries is attractive.

  6. March 12, 2012 12:59 am

    This is getting linked. VERY good post hermano.

  7. March 12, 2012 2:27 am

    Cash money. The essence of the sexless nice guy is the supplication, the telegraphing of low social value. A nice guy who has social value is magnanimous.

    I think there is one caveat – there are genuinely nice guys who don’t get laid not because they are fake nice guys, but because they don’t communicate any “killer instinct,” whether that be social dominance or adequate escalation. They are just gentle people. They need to project a surge of testosterone.

    This is brilliance from Retrenched:

    “2. Some people are confusing cause with effect. It isn’t so much that women find the nice guys unattractive because they’re nice, it’s that they’re calling them “nice” because they do not find them attractive. It’s a polite word women generally use to describe good, decent men who don’t offend them, but who don’t turn them on either.
    3. Few women will ever use the word “nice” to describe a man they find sexually attractive, even if he is actually nice. (George Clooney seems like a nice man, but do you think “nice” is the first word that comes to women’s minds when they think of George Clooney? Probably not.)”

    IME the first thing a woman will usually describe about a man or a woman is their attractiveness (“What’s she like? She’s hot!”), if they are not attractive they proceed to other traits (“he’s nice/she has a good personality.”)

  8. March 12, 2012 10:23 pm

    If you’re too nice, one of my favorite sayings comes into play:

    “No good deed goes unpunished.”

  9. circlebill permalink
    April 30, 2012 4:53 pm

    The simple act of a man treating a woman with gentle kindness and courtesy opens up the way for idiot assumption on top of idiot assumption! A man is courteous and kind! He must be weak! He must be a pushover! He must be boring! He must be fake! He must be desperate! He must be needy! I would say that most of the problem comes from the idea of a young woman being ALLOWED to judge the measure of a man! They just don’t have the necessary wisdom for that job! That’s why so many keep making bad choices! Hell! It would probably make more sense for a man to just grab up and carry off the woman he choses against her will! If he could overpower her, fight off other men who also wanted her, strip her naked and force her into his bed, she becomes his! In this scenario, women would see all the aggressive confidence they claim to like so much!

    • June 2, 2012 6:36 am

      You completely missed the point, didn’t you?

      • circlebill permalink
        February 12, 2013 2:13 am

        I see you are basically speechless! I know this may be difficult to accept, but it is YOU that completely missed the point! Let me spell it out for you!

        IF BEING A NICE MAN DOESN’T PAY, THEN STOP BEING A NICE MAN!

        If women don’t appreciate kind treatment, then they don’t deserve it!
        They clearly prefer and deserve UNKIND treatment! Simple concept!

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